07-08-09

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OH SEVEN, OH EIGHT, OH NINE

No, it does not mean anything special to me. It’s just one of those once in a lifetime fun things. Today’s date, July 8, 2009 is 07/08/09

Only Because We’re Behind The Rest Of The World

I do realize that were I anywhere else in the world, 07/08/09 would mean the seventh day of the eighth month of the nineth year.

Your 07/08/09 Is Yet To Come

I was about to say that was last month, but it wasn’t. Ha! So, now the rest of you around the world can be sure to ‘celebrate’ 07/08/09 when the 7th day of August rolls around.

My Polka Dot Milk Recipe (blueberries and milk)

I Like Blueberry Ice Cream

I like blueberry ice cream. I also like blueberries in milk. I tell the children it’s polka dot milk.

My Polka Dot Milk Recipe

This recipe is about as simple as can be. It’s yummy, too.

My Polka Dot Milk Recipe

Fill a tall, clear glass with frozen blueberries.

Pour milk over it. Smile. The milk has polka dots.

The blueberries also are covered with icy milk,

and they’re cold and ice-milk-like and sweet and tart.

Especially Nice If You’re The Mom

This is an especially nice treat if you’re the mom. It’s fun. It tastes good. Milk is good for the bones, and blueberries are good brain food.

Flavors Other Than Vanilla Homemade Ice Cream

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Mom’s Homemade Vanilla Ice Cream Recipe

My mom has used the same recipe for fifty years. I published my mom’s homemade vanilla ice cream recipe that uses eggs on July 4th. Last week, I published a homemade vanilla ice cream recipe with no eggs

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What Kind of Milk Should I Use?

I was thinking this morning that I’ve tried everything including two cups of heavy cream, unpasturized milk from a local farmer’s cow, pasturized whole milk from the grocery store, 2% pasturized milk from the grocery store and soy milk.

Low Calorie or Richer, Smoother Taste?

It’s all up to you. The lower fat milks will give you a product that’s more of an ‘ice milk’ product. It’s a little icier. The higher fat milks result in a creamier ice cream. My mom’s rule of thumb is, “If you want lower calorie ice cream, use 2%  milk. If you want richer ice cream, use half and half.”

What About Fruit Flavors?

The other night, when I was asking my mom for her recipe, I asked what she does for other flavors. The ones she addressed were the fruit flavors. She said you  just mash whatever fruit you want: bananas, peaches, strawberries, and add it to the mix.

How  Much Fruit Should I Add?

Mom my said she uses anywhere from a pint to a quart of mashed fruit in her ice cream recipe. Keep in mind, this is for a one gallon recipe. So, you can adjust the amount as needed.  She adds the fruit to the basic recipe, pours it into the one gallon freezer can, and then finishes filling the can with milk.

Easy Blueberry Ice Cream

I like blueberry ice cream. I also like blueberries in milk. I tell the children it’s polka dot milk.

My Polka dot milk recipe:

Fill a tall, clear glass with frozen blueberries.

Pour milk over it. Smile. The milk has polka dots.

The blueberries also are covered with icy milk,

and they’re cold and ice-milk-like and sweet and tart.

You can see why I’d like blueberry ice cream. It’s really easy to make.

My Blueberry Ice Cream Recipe

Start with a homemade vanilla ice cream recipe:
(with eggs or without eggs)

Take the bag of frozen blueberries out of your freezer.

Pour frozen blueberries into the mixed vanilla ice cream ingredients.
(Pour the blueberries in still frozen and stir to prevent a frozen clump.)

If you don’t like the slightly tart taste, add a little more sugar.

Triple Bear Tracks Ice Cream

Okay, now for a child favorite in my family. I’ve been naming the various flavors with ‘bear’ names.

This is the variation we call Triple Bear Tracks.

Use either of the vanilla recipes

Add chocolate chips, pecans and peanut butter.

In my little 1.5 quart maker, with the ‘dump in the ingredients’ chute at the top, I usually add these extra ingredients after it’s been freezing for a few minutes. The chopped chocolate chips and broken pecan pieces are easy.

For the peanut butter, I dip out little blobs from the jar and drop them into the ice cream maker one at a time.

Homemade Ice Cream Posts:

Homemade Chocolate Chip Ice Cream and Songs About Ducks, Geese, Donkeys and Teddy Bears

Homemade Vanilla Ice Cream Recipe – No Eggs – No Cooking – EASY! :)

My Mother’s Homemade Vanilla Ice Cream Recipe

Flavors Other Than Vanilla Homemade Ice Cream

My Mother’s Homemade Vanilla Ice Cream Recipe (50 Years of Cold, Sweet, Smooth, Yummy Goodness!!! Mmmmmm!!!)

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My Mom Makes Mmmm-Mmmm-Mmmm Good Food!

I grew up eating homemade vanilla ice cream (and homemade chocolate ice cream, and homemade peach ice cream, and homemade banana ice cream, and homemade pineapple ice cream, and homemade strawberry ice cream). Yes, I grew up eating homemade ice cream, and it was GOOD!

I Made Vanilla Ice Cream In My Little Ice Cream Maker

I recently made vanilla ice cream in my little (1.5 quart, electric) ice cream maker. I told my mom about looking online for easy recipes. I had not even asked her how she made it. I think it’s because I wanted to find a homemade ice cream recipe that uses no eggs.

“I Could Have Told You How To Make Ice Cream”

Mom – “I could have told you how to make ice cream”

Me – “Then, why didn’t you?”

Mom – “You didn’t ask me.”

I Finally Asked Her Last Night

Last night, my mom prepared a wonderful going-away dinner for a relative who is going away. Mmmmmm. It was a meal of comfort foods, really delicious. I don’t know if people who grew up in places other than the Southeastern USA like these foods, but I enjoyed every bite.

The Meal Last Night

The meal last night included these foods: Cantaloupe, Tomatoes and Avacado, Four Bean Salad, Mashed Potatoes, Deviled Eggs, Sweet Potatoes, Biscuits with Butter, Eye of the Round beef, and Lemon Pie for dessert.

All of it was prepared “from scratch”. That’s really not even a term we needed to use growing up, because there was no other alternative. Nothing was ever made from a mix. (One example from last night:  the crust of the pie was made with crushed graham crackers and melted butter toasted in the oven, and she used freshly squeezed lemon juice in the the pie filling).

Back To Mom’s Vanilla Ice Cream Recipe

Okay, after the wonderful food last night, I started writing down recipes to add to my “Cooking For The Motivationally Challenged” category. And, I finally asked my mom for her Homemade Vanilla Ice Cream Recipe. (It’s a little more complicated than the Homemade Vanilla Ice Cream Recipe – No Eggs – No Cooking – EASY! :). It’s not difficult. It just takes a little more time.)

This Recipe Uses Eggs

Mom – “If you want really good ice cream, put eggs and cream in it.”

History – My mother has  made this recipe for fifty years. She made it with eggs. She did not cook the eggs before making the ice cream. We never got sick.

Present Day – My mom gave me this recipe with egg-cooking instructions as part of the recipe.  Since people rarely eat raw eggs anymore, this recipe includes the way you can cook the eggs before adding them to the rest of the mix.

What You’ve Been Waiting For: The Recipe

Mom’s Homemade Vanilla Ice Cream Recipe

COMBINE:
3 eggs
2 and 1/2 cups of sugar
pinch of salt
1 can of evaporated milk

COOK these ingredients on low heat, stirring continuously. Cook it long enough to heat all the ingredients, but not enough to bring it to a boil.

COOL the mixture.

ADD
1 can of evaporated milk
1 Tablespoon Vanilla

POUR INTO A ONE-GALLON ICE CREAM FREEZER

Finish filling the gallon freezer with whole milk

FREEZE

Before You Make This Recipe

This homemade vanilla ice cream recipe is for a one-gallon freezer. These are the tall can freezers that you surround with ice and rock salt and either crank or plug in.  This recipe assumes you have this type of freezer and you already know how to use it.

If you have a small freezer like I do, a little 1.5 gallon tub that you freeze in your freezer and then pour ice cream mix into and turn on, you’ll  need to either divide this recipe and save half for another day, or just make a half-sized recipe.

Mom’s Recipe for your 1/2 Gallon Freezer

COMBINE AND COOK ON LOW HEAT
STIR CONTINUOUSLY
2 eggs
1 and 1/4 cup sugar
1/2 can evaporated milk

COOL THE MIXTURE

ADD
1/2 can of evaporated milk
1 or 2 teaspoons of vanilla

POUR it into your ice cream maker

ADD as much whole milk as you need to fill

FREEZE

Serve and Enjoy

Homemade ice cream is best right when it finishes freezing. Everyone is ready and waiting with bowls and spoons in hand. The top comes off. The dash comes out. A big serving spoon goes down into that cold, smooth, sweet frozen mix and it comes back out with a huge scoop of ice cream for your bowl.  You dip your spoon into the ice cream and slip it into your mouth.

Mmmmmmmmm. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh.

Eat slowly for maximum enjoyment.

Savor every bite.

Avoid brain freeze (the sudden headache you get from eating too quickly).

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Homemade Ice Cream Posts:

Homemade Chocolate Chip Ice Cream and Songs About Ducks, Geese, Donkeys and Teddy Bears

Homemade Vanilla Ice Cream Recipe – No Eggs – No Cooking – EASY!

My Mother’s Homemade Vanilla Ice Cream Recipe

Flavors Other Than Vanilla Homemade Ice Cream

I Am An American – E Pluribus Unum: “Out of Many, One”

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E Pluribus Unum: “Out of Many, One”

Happy Independence Day

Ad Council – I Am An American

This Fourth: Freedom, Crispus and Gay Linguists (Remixed)

Don’t Tell Me Who To Love (song by Ray Boltz)

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It’s a Good Song

Don’t Tell Me Who to Love

Soulforce Video Using Ray’s Song

Soulforce made this marriage equality video featuring couples, families, and images of protest signs around the country in response to Proposition 8. They used “Don’t Tell Me Who to Love” by Ray Boltz. The song is available for free download at www.rayboltzblog.wordpress.com. Please share the song with your family and friends and go to www.soulforce.org and join our email list!

Don’t Tell Me Who To Love – Download the mp3 Free

Download the mp3 from Ray Boltz on WordPress

Ray Boltz will give you a copy of this song for free!

Don’t Tell Me Who to Love – mp3

Don’t Tell Me Who To Love (lyrics)

SONG LYRICS: “Don’t Tell Me Who To Love”

written by Ray Boltz (c) 2008 Shepherd Boy Music/ASCAP

VERSE ONE

The year was 1966 and they were wearing their wedding bands

She was black and he was white and some people didn’t understand

The judge said that’s not legal, the preacher called it a sin

But they couldn’t stop them cause he loved her and she loved him

CHORUS

Don’t tell me who to love, don’t tell me who to kiss

Don’t tell me that there’s something wrong because I feel like this

I know what’s in my heart, that should be enough

Don’t tell me, don’t tell me no, don’t tell me who to love

VERSE TWO

Maybe you’re in love today and you’ve been making wedding plans

But there is someone in your way shouting things cause they don’t understand

The judge says that’s not legal, the preacher calls it a sin

Oh you just remember they were wrong before and they’re wrong again

REPEAT CHORUS

BRIDGE

Now there always will be hatred and voices that condemn

Oh but I believe that true love is gonna make it in the end

REPEAT CHORUS (fade)

Share This Video With Everyone You Know

Don’t Tell Me Who to Love

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RELATED:
If you are a gay man who is married to a straight woman, or if you are a straight woman married to a gay man, visit Carol’s blog, My Heart Goes Out.

Homemade Vanilla Ice Cream Recipe – No Eggs – No Cooking – EASY! :)

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Shopping for Cooking Utensils

After my recent renewal of interest in cooking, I found myself shopping at several stores one day. I was looking for specific utensils to use in preparing certain recipes.

1.5 Quart Electric Ice Cream Maker

While I was studying the various items available to make my life easier in the kitchen, I found a small ice cream maker for a price I told myself I could afford. The body is made of plastic. There is a motor, with a short power cord, that fits into the lid. The plastic dash snaps into the base of the motor. The plastic top snaps onto the plastic base.

A Frozen Metal Container Freezes the Recipe

The last bit of the ice cream maker is a metal container that can hold 1.5 quarts of ice cream.  I put the metal freezer container into my freezer until it is soooooo cold it freezes liquid on contact. At that point, it’s ready to go to work.

Freezing the Recipe Without Breaking the Ice Cream Maker

I’ve tried it three times now, and I’ve finally figured out how to get it to freeze without freezing on the sides of the freezer portion and locking the dash in place.  I did not see this in the instructions, but here is what works best for me. I take the freezer tub out of my freezer and place it into the plastic base. I  put the dash into the base of the motor (top part of this ice cream maker), snap the top onto the base (and freezer tub) and plug it in. This is all done before adding the ice cream recipe.

Now Add the Recipe

As soon as the ice cream maker is put together, with the frozen freezer tub inside and the dash ready to turn, I turn it on with no liquid inside. Then, using a funnel (to keep from losing the entire recipe), I pour four cups of the ice cream recipe through the funnel into the chute where you add nuts and chocolate and any other goodies late in the process.  It works best for me that way, With the dash already turning, the recipe does not suddenly freeze on the edges of the freezer tub, but it freezes evenly.

Are You Ready for the Recipe?

This is the easiest recipe I found. It uses no eggs. It requires no cooking. It’s super-easy! That’s what I like for my “Cooking for the Motivationally Challenged” posts.   And, that’s what I like for myself, too!

Vanilla Ice Cream Recipe for a 1.5 Quart Ice Cream Maker

Stir the following together and chill in the refrigerator for several hours, or overnight, before pouring into your ice cream maker. (The only variation I made is that my freezer wants only 4 cups of the recipe, and it expands to 6 cups while it freezes. I mixed the recipe below, then poured in 4 cups and saved the rest for the next batch.)

No-Cook Homemade Ice Cream

Southern Living , Aug 2004 by Dosier, Susan

1 cup sweetened condensed milk

1 cup evaporated milk

2 tablespoons brown sugar

2 tablespoons vanilla

2 cups whole milk

That’s all. That’s it. It’s that easy.

Just be sure your freezer tub insert has been in the freezer long enough to freeze liquid on contact. And, chill your ingredients long enough to have it really cold before adding it to the freezer. And, after the ice cream is ready, put it into an airtight container and put it into your freezer (if you don’t eat it all in one sitting!).

Two Recipes of Homemade Vanilla Ice Cream

I made two batches today.  Actually, I mixed up the recipe last night, and made the first run this morning. Then, I thought the freezer can was still cold enough, so I mixed more and poured it in. (I did not follow the instructions to chill the ingredients before freezing or to add them to the freezer can straight from the freezer.) The second time it didn’t work. So, at this point, the recipe ingredients are cooling in the refrigerator and the freezer can is in the freezer. Maybe I’ll freeze the second batch tomorrow.

I wrote this post on May 18, 2009.

Homemade Ice Cream Posts:

Homemade Chocolate Chip Ice Cream and Songs About Ducks, Geese, Donkeys and Teddy Bears

Homemade Vanilla Ice Cream Recipe – No Eggs – No Cooking – EASY!

My Mother’s Homemade Vanilla Ice Cream Recipe

Flavors Other Than Vanilla Homemade Ice Cream

How Does Your Church Treat Queers? (Peterson Toscano Wants to Know)

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Peterson Toscano

Peterson Toscano is a good guy. He went through a lot of bad things, and he’s come back out on the other side with good humor and information for all of us.

Traveling Around the World

Peterson travels around the world. He’s a performer and an educator. He tells people about his experiences in the ‘ex-gay’ world.

Advocating for Gay Christians

Peterson Toscano is an advocate for lgbt Christians. Look at this exchange:

ME: Cool stuff you offer here. I know of some young people who would be interested in your ministry. They are sincere Christians, who would both give a lot to and receive a lot from the programming that you offer. They happen to be transgender, bisexual, lesbian or gay. How well would they fare in your organization?

RESOURCE: We welcome all people.

ME: Yes, I understand that, but if they came to you with say questions about their faith or maybe an eating disorder or simply becuase they want to be stronger believers, would they get the help they need without their sexuality becoming THE issue that you insist needs to be addressed.

RESOURCE: We don’t really deal with sexuality. It doesn’t come up.

ME: Wait, you run an organization for youth and you don’t ever talk about sex?!? Seems like a pretty important issue. Okay, so they will not be told they have to change their sexuality in order to be part of the group?

RESOURCE: Well, we do believe in the Bible…

ME: Yeah, so do I and so do these young people. The Bible doesn’t condemn a loving relationship between two men or two women. The Bible doesn’t condemn a gay, lesbian or bisexual orientation. The Bible actually affirms the lives and contributions of gender-variant people.

RESOURCE: We don’t see it that way, but they would still be welcome.

ME: Welcome to recive your services, to give contributions, to fill the seats?

RESOURCE: Yeah, they will be very welcome.

ME: Okay, I want to make sure we are clear here. A young person comes to your ministry. They have peace and clarity about their sexuality. They attend your training courses, meet many new friends, grow in their faith, contribute more and more time and resources to the work you do. After they devote two years of their lives to your ministry, they decide they want to give even more, to take on a leadership role, to lead a course. As an openly transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay, queer person, you are telling me that they will be able to serve in a leadership position in your ministry?

RESOURCE: Well, no, but then an adulterer or rapist wouldn’t be able to either.

ME: I find it offensive that you equate the lives of these transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay, queer people to adultery and rape. These are young people committed to God, living thoughtful responsible lives with peace in their hearts. They are not cheating on their partners and they are not rapists. Some are single and waiting for a partner. They choose to be honest with themselves and others about their sexuality. Would they be able to serve in your ministry?

RESOURCE: Um, no.

ME: So I should tell them that yours is not a safe place for them.
Perhaps you should let people know up front that you accept them under certain often unspoken conditions and that the same conditions do not apply to transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and queer folks as to straight, gender-normative fellow believers.

Spend An Hour With Peterson Toscano

Read his posts. Watch his videos. Click links on the sidebar and find more good reading.

My Response to Carol Boltz

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I Wrote About Carol Boltz

On June 17, 2009, I put up a post about Carol Boltz and her interview on the online radio show on the Gay Christian Network. In that interview, Carol talked about her life before, during and after the time when her (ex-) husband, Christian singer Ray Boltz, came out as gay.

A Woman Anyone Would Want to Call a Friend

I think of Carol Boltz as a friend. I believe good, good things about her. So, I was disappointed, but not surprised, to find that a message board run by students from a fundamentalist Christian college had a post that quoted my entire post with the partial transcript of Carol’s interview.

No Quotation Marks to Identify Her Words

The person who copied my entire post failed to use quotations to attribute Carol’s words to her. That led some readers to believe the transcript of parts of her radio interview was actually something she had written. That was misleading. But, at least they included a link to my post. So, at least readers could come here and see what she said, and know they were reading a partial transcript of a radio interview, and then visit Carol’s blog to see what she had to say about her experience of being on the radio show.

Negative Comments About Carol and Ray

After the post, there were comments about Carol and Ray. They were mostly along the line that says, “She just talked about what she thinks and how she feels, but it’s really about what God’s Word says.”

Who Were These Commenters? I Wondered

I wondered who these people were, writing comments on a password-protected bulletin board, saying disparaging things about someone I think of as a friend. So, I did what you’d probably do. I googled them. And, I learned that they call themselves, “an online community for gen-x Christians with connections to …”. Then, I googled the core part of their name, and learned that they are from a “fundamental college.”

That Answered My Questions. Fundamentalism.

There are many people who have grown up in fundamentalist Christian churches. Their teachings about Christianity do not include homosexuality. The people who are posting on the message board seem to be of that belief. They believe that homosexuality is not a sexual orientation, part of who a person is, rather that it is an action or a behavior, a choice and a sin. (I first learned about that bit of fundamentalist theology from Marc Adams when he explained to me the fundamentalist view of homosexuality.)

I Read the Rules for the Bulletin Board

The rules for posting include this:

Discussion of certain topics which destroy that environment are forbidden. The following topics are strictly off-limits:

ADVOCACY OR DEFENSE OF HOMOSEXUALITY

Other bulletin boards concerning PCC have in the past been invaded by persons with an agenda of pushing for the acceptance of homosexuality. Those discussions drove away the existing majority of Christians on those boards, and therefore will NOT be tolerated here. PERIOD. You are free to disagree, but not on this board.

Clearly, it is acceptable to speak badly, on that bulletin board, of people who are open and honest about their sexuality. But, it is forbidden to say anything positive or supportive of people who are open and honest about their sexuality if it happens not to be heterosexuality.

Recognition, Realization, Acceptance, Openness

Those who hold to the fundamentalist theology believe that Carol and Ray Boltz are way off the path. I believe differently. The fundamentalist view is that there is no such thing as homosexuality, there is only “the sin of homosexuality.” (Adams) They refer to ex-gay groups as a way to ‘escape’ homosexuality. But, there is no escaping who you are by denying it. There is life beyond ex-gay, rising up whole (Bakke) and living an honest, creative life as the person God created (Toscano).

(I read more of the rules and discovered that the board is not from a fundamentalist school, but from an evangelical school. “Since we are evangelical Christians, our community standards are pretty strict, so if you’re in doubt, either ask or just don’t post it.” Apparently that school believes the same as the fundamentalists about homosexuality.)

Carol and Ray Boltz Still Walk With God

From what I have seen, Carol and Ray Boltz are on the path and walking with God. What they are not doing is picking up stones from that path to hurl at others. They are walking honestly and openly. Regardless of what others say about their faith and their lives, they are still on the path. They are still walking with God.

My Comment After I Read Those Comments

I wrote a comment to Carol after I read those words by people who believe Ray and Carol cannot possibly be Christians and gay/gay-supporting. Here’s what I said:

Thank you for your openness about your life.

I know there are many who are taking your honesty, and Ray’s, as an opportunity to attack you and Ray (in the name of God, of course). There are people who have chosen to reject you and Ray, because of his coming out, and because of your support for him and all lgbt persons. They are misinformed.

I know you to be an open, honest, loving, giving, devoted Christian woman. If those who speak badly of you and Ray were to look at your history, they would see that your history and your present life give you credibility.

The one good thing I see about people criticizing you and Ray, by name, is that those who need the truth that is in your personal story will be able to find you because of those who have named you and criticized you.

For anyone who has heard of Ray Boltz or Carol Boltz, and anyone who is married and gay or married to a spouse who is gay, you are not alone. Carol has opened her heart to the world, and you can find support, encouragement, comfort and hope in the pages of her personal web page My Heart Goes Out.

Thank you, Carol, for the light you shine in this world.

A Shout Out to the Overnight Readers in Knoxville, TN (and, everywhere else you are)

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I See You Reading In The Night

Not really! But, I know you’re there.

Thanks For Reading

I’d love to hear from you. Leave comments!

Wanda Sykes on Gay Marriage

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NSFW

Seriously. But, you already knew that Wanda Sykes’ humor is not something you can play aloud at work. Right?

Now That We’ve Got That Out Of The Way

You can see her in concert, about four minutes anyway, here.

Thanks!

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Happy Father’s Day

Lesbian couples’ children have lower rates of mental illness

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That’s What I Heard

“Lesbian couples’ children have lower rates of mental illness”
Many arguments against civil unions and same-sex marriage focus on the supposed debilitating effects on children with parents of the same gender. However, these arguments are supported by little credible research.

Check it out

Lesbian couples’ children have lower rates of mental illness

“That’s So Gay!” – Think Before You Speak

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That’s So Gay!

Do you say that? Why? It’s not very nice.

Wanda Sykes Has Something To Say

Think Before You Speak – Pizza Shop

Think Before You Speak

Think Before You Speak – Cashier

That’s So Gay PSA

Hilary Duff – Think Before You Speak (”That’s So Gay”) Official (HQ)

The Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN)

Gay Hollywood Is Upset About Bruno

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Discontent in Gay Hollywood

I just read today that there is discontent in ‘gay Hollywood’ over Bruno. I knew it played to stereotypes, but I did not know to what degree.

Stereotypes About Gay Men

I know that I could see the movie and not make assumptions about all gay men. I realized, after the information today, that it is possible that not all viewers will be that way.

How Will You See It?

I hope that those who see this movie will see it as an over-the-top set of gags based on stereotypes and not as an accurate portrayal of gay people. That seems obvious to me, but I guess for people who don’t actually know (that they know) anyone who is gay, it could be problematic.

Do You Know (that you know) Anyone Who Is Gay?

I guess it all comes back to gay people living as openly as circumstances will allow. (There are people for whom coming out would not be safe or wise given their surroundings.)

You Know (and probably love) Someone Who Is Gay

I do believe that the more people realize that everyone knows (and, probably loves) someone who is gay, there will be more and more acceptance and eventually equal rights for all.

Is Bruno Queerface?

That’s the question asked in these videos. Is Bruno too extreme in its stereotypes? Is it ‘Queerface’ (a new word for the English language, similar to Blackface).

Bruno = Queerface ?? #1

Bruno = Queerface ?? #2

Maybe I Was Wrong

I expected it to be funny, in the way that over-the-top Southern movies are funny. But, I understand that it’s all a matter of perception. I know that over-the-top Southern movies play on stereotypes, but they are not an accurate portrayal of everyday life in the South. People who did not grow up here might not experience the humor from the same perspective.

Laughing With or Laughing At?

Some of the people in the videos expressed a concern about whether the audience will be laughing with gay people or at gay people.  Now that my attention has been drawn to this point, I can see this concern.

Will Bruno Mean a Slide Backwards for Equality?

That’s another concern that was voiced in the Queerface videos. Is the stereotyping used in the movie simply funny, or will it reinforce prejudices against gay people?

What do you think?