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12 Common Pet Myths

by Amy D. Shojai (Subscribe to Amy D. Shojai’s posts)

Jan 21st 2011 @ 11:00AM Filed Under: Cats, Pet Health


Amy D. Shojai is a certified animal behavior consultant and the award-winning author of 23 pet care books, including “Complete Care for Your Aging Cat” and “Complete Care for Your Aging Dog.”

For centuries, people created fanciful stories to explain puzzling animal antics. Many of these myth-understandings about cat and dog behaviors linger on, even though modern veterinary and behavior experts have uncovered scientific explanations for these issues. Here we lay 12 common myths to rest.

Myth 1: Dogs and cats enjoy being hugged. People are by nature touchy-feely creatures. Dogs and cats on the other hand, grab and hold prey, and “hug” during mating or fighting. Pets may enjoy nuzzling and getting affection akin to hugging, or there may be a reason why they should be sensitized to being hugged, but it is good to remember that your pet may also confuse a hug with aggression.

Myth 2: Cats seek out people who hate cats. It can seem that way. A cat lover’s admiring stares and “kitty, kitty, kitty” calls can be off-putting. So in a crowded room, a cat often seeks the only person ignoring her. Besides, cat lovers may already smell like strange cats, so she’ll be more attracted to the cat-free-zone human.

Myth 3: Dogs that are aggressive are showing dominance. Actually, it is fearful dogs that most often aggress to make a scary situation go away. A top dog rarely aggresses because other dogs accept he’s the boss. You do however see pushy dogs learn to use snarls to get their way, or clueless adolescent dogs act up because they’ve gotten too big for their furry britches and want to challenge the real boss.

Myth 4: Dogs and cats are jealous of the phone. The phone rings and suddenly your pet demands attention. This can certainly be annoying but their behavior is logical when you realize why they’re doing it. From you pet’s perspective, you’re talking and there’s nobody else around — so you must be talking to your pet!

Myth 5: Dogs wag their tails when they are happy. Not always. Dogs wag when excited, when fearful, when happy or even to signal imminent attack. The position of the tail, and frequency of wags, is a better indicator of happiness. Low-held tails with slow, loose wags usually signal, “Come closer; I want to be friends.”

Myth 6: Dogs and cats learn only if you punish them.
No. Punishment actually can interfere with pets’ ability to learn. Punishment can make behaviors worse and can cause fear aggression. Instead, you need to teach an alternative to bad behavior.

Myth 7: Dogs catch on to house training more quickly when you rub their noses in their accidents. Absolutely not. But this does teach the dog that humans sometimes go nuts and seemingly want them to eat their poop! Talk about confusing. Punishing for a normal behavior like going to the bathroom encourages dogs to hide it better the next time. Instead, catch your dog in the act of targeting the right spot and reward with praise or treats for the most effective lesson.

Myth 8: Cats always land on their feet. It is true that cats have balance organs in the inner ear that allow a cat to contract and flex the spine, shoulders and flanks to land on her feet in amazing ways. But there are many factors involved. Falls from too short a distance — being dropped by a child, for example — won’t allow enough time for a paw landing. Conversely, landing feet first from a fall from a great height can break bones and seriously injure the cat.

Myth 9: Cats purr when they are happy. Often they do. But think of the cat’s purr as a feline smile — do you smile only when happy? Purring soothes kitty emotions (and humans as well), and the vibration relieves pain and speeds healing, so purring can happen when a cat is happy, injured or just needs to comfort himself.

Myth 10: Cats wet the bed and dogs destroy furniture and other items in the house because they are angry. There are many possible physical, emotional and/or instinctual reasons for these normal behaviors — none having to do with anger or vengefulness. Items that smell like you (bed, shoes, purse) are targeted because your scent comforts the pet. Consider that a back-handed compliment, not spite.

Myth 11: Cats suck the breath from babies. Yes, this old wives tale is still around. Curious cats may check out milky-smelling infant breath or be attracted to a warm crib. They are not trying to harm the baby, but pets should always be supervised around infants.

Myth 12: Dogs alpha roll each other. A study of captive wolves (later debunked) gave rise to this theory. Dogs roll onto their backs to expose their tummies to other animals — or people — and signal deference and nonthreat. Dogs willingly show their tummies to people or other dogs they want to placate or acquiesce. But even alpha dogs show their tummies to invite puppies and subordinate dogs to play. Dogs do not force other dogs onto their backs to prove leadership. Alpha rolling your dog may confuse or frighten him and some dogs even fight back. Don’t risk it!

In addition to being a certified animal behavior consultant, Amy also appears on Animal Planet’s “Cats-101″ and “Dogs-101,” and lives in North Texas with a senior citizen Siamese and smart-aleck German shepherd who have their share of behavior myth-takes. Read Amy’s blog on Red Room.

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Early Days in the Enchanted Forest

This photo was from the end of July. I had already pulled these little trees out of the ground on one side of my yard, all volunteers, and transplanted them to the lower side of my yard. It did not occur to me that they might not live through days with high temperatures in the upper 90sF, but they did (7 of 9 lived).

The Metamorphosis

This little section of the yard went from being grass, to having three blueberry bushes mulched in 4′x4′ frames, to having a row of little shrub starts to grow a hedge, to having nine trees. That’s when it was dubbed “The Enchanted Forest”.  By mid-August, the grass you see in this photo was covered by wood chips as the forest grew.

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The Beginning of the Enchanted Forest

Back in the spring, I planted three blueberry bushes. I placed a 4′x4′ frame around each one. Then, I mulched inside the frames and put down wood chips outside the frames. Sometime after the middle of  June, maybe closer to July, I decided to create a hedge by transplanting the little volunteer shrub trees that were growing on the other side of my yard.  Here’s how they looked, all in a row.

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Fresh air vs. Painful Stings? Hmmmm.

I don’t use that clothes line anyway, but I probably should. I don’t think I’ve felt or smelled sheets dried in the sun and fresh air in decades!

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Catnip Bee

Cats aren’t the only ones who like catnip. I was delighted to discover that honeybees and bumble bees all like it as well.

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Three Birds in the Catnip

My tiny catnip plant, planted last spring, has gone wild. It is now taller than I am, and much wider, too. :) The bees love it. Sometimes there are 20 bees buzzing around, moving from flower to flower. On this particular morning, the birds enjoyed it, too.

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Butterfly High on Butterfly Bush

I’ve seen so many pretty butterflies this summer. Most were on this butterfly bush. It smells like honey. It has pretty purple flowers. Mmmmmmm.

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Bee on Butterfly Bush Flowers

I see many butterflies on the butterfly bush, but I don’t see many bees. I’d love to make my yard a haven for butterflies and honeybees.

ps – I realize bees, and butterflies, and other such creatures are not “pets and other animals”, but I’ll be including them in that category.

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Deer by the Barn

This deer was in front of the barn at my other grandparents’ house.

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Honeysuckle and Butterfly

This was outside my grandparents’ house August 8, 2010.

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If Only They Knew

I went to a party a few years ago. It was a celebration in honor of a famous citizen of the city where I live. I thought at the time, “if only they knew, they’d throw a party for …”

I Still Feel That Way

They still don’t know. She’s not famous, and she never will be. But, her contributions are many.

What’s So Special About Her?

She’s good at imagining how things can be, even if they are not that way at the moment.

She believes in taking care of her body by avoiding recreational poisons, but she does enjoy a good dessert.

She traveled internationally for her honeymoon, something that was probably unheard of in her small town.

She’s all about helping children make music. She’s taught generations of children.

She works for peace, justice, and equality in her own realm. She doesn’t talk love, she lives it.

She cried when my dog was dying and I was sad.

She’s green. I suddenly realized last year that she’s been saving the earth for decades.

She does not worry. She does not focus on “what if” scenarios. She appreciates each day as it comes.

She believes in God. She also sees the evolution of life that occurs around us every day.

She reads stories to children. She reads stories to adults. And, she enjoys listening to stories told by storytellers.

Quiet Goodness

You probably don’t know her. You’ll probably never meet her. But, the world is a better place because of her.


I love you, Mom.

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The Greed of the Powerful Strikes Again

Once again, profits for the shareholders (including those within the corporate structure who benefit from rising stock values) have trumped safety.

More Is Not Always Better

Why do major corporations fight for the right not to be safe? What’s the point? The greed that kept BP from spending the money needed to keep that rig safe, and to make sure there would not be an unstoppable spill, has caused more than destruction of property and wildlife.

Stock Prices and Reputation

How will the stock price be helped by destruction of ocean life, beaches, and birds? How will the reputation of an oil giant benefit by this new image of an oil slick moving towards all the coasts on the gulf? I know I’ve lost respect for BP because of this. This situation is similar, in my mind, to the mine disaster a few weeks ago. The company tried to save money by cutting safety, and now they’ve lost more than they ever could have saved.

So Sad

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Snow 6-8 Inches Deep and Sleeting

That’s what it looks like. And, it’s pretty cold out there (not like the really cold places, but cold for the southeastern part of the USA).

The Hospitals Are Open

They have a ‘severe weather plan’. You don’t have to worry about being abandoned by your health care team. They’re not allowed to leave until the replacements come in.  I called in to ask how the roads were and if people came in. They told me everyone came to work today. That made me proud of the people I work with. Some even stayed at hotels last night in order to be able to get to work this morning. Bravo for dedicated health care professionals.

An Overnight Bag and Microwavable Food

I don’t know if I’ll be able to get out of my driveway. So, I plan to leave a couple of hours early, even though I don’t live far from work. I’ve put out enough food and water for the pets to last a couple of days, even though I’m supposed to be home after a few hours.  Since I don’t know what to expect, and I’m not sure I’ll want to drive home in the middle of the night on ice with temperatures in the teens, I might just try to find a department that needs an extra person and work all night. (I’ve even packed two tubes of Pear Berry Shea Body Butter to share the aromatherapy love and the luxurious feeling for a moment with my coworkers if they get worn out from working long hours. :)  )

But, This Was Supposed To Be About Snow Photos

Okay, they’re the same as other times, only newer. And, the snow is a little bit deeper and will last a few days longer. So, here are a few photos. It’s such an event when it snows here, I just have to take pictures. :)

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